ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT DROWNING IN ARREARS

ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT DROWNING IN ARREARS

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Going insane
Help drowning in arrears they are stealing my social security disability?
I am getting social security disability . And department of revenue intercepts my payment of 900.00 a month . Taking 600.00 from it leaving me with 300.00 to live on . my child support is all arrears now and kids are 24 n 21 .
Is there anything i can do to get my disability income back ? that is all i have to live on ..I am mentally disabled and it over my head how to deal with it ?


Hello Going insane,
You asked about "Help drowning in arrears they are stealing my social security disability?"

damienthorne6969 Answered:
You guys are some judgemental mother*&%$#!. Sorry for my tone, but that downright pisses me off. Why the hell, should this woman get that money to start with? Dude hasn't seen his kids in 20 years, and if hes disabled, he's disabled. You don't need to talk crap bout him, acting like you know him, cause YOUR pos ex husband or dad or wtf left you. My dad left when i was 2, my mom (im 29 yo now) didnt see one dime. She couldn't care less. She wasn't one...
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Well thank you very much for some positive adversary . Yeah it kinda sucks when the bitch gets the house the furniture every thing you have achieved from the life before the marriage an during then attacks you after taking a hefty percentage of your income . the only possible way to retaliate is to well lets say disappear off the grid . An form your own corporation an pay your self nothing at all live off the corporation an let her rot in hell for screwing up your life . after all I had no choice in the desire of having kids . I DIDN'T WANT KIDS ! . But men have no resources when it comes to women as far as defending oneself if they get pregnant they know its they're meal ticket to screw you forever . It's up to us to either bend over and take it or retaliate any way we can which is very little except for not paying an slipping through the cracks as long as possible as in my case 12 years of being totally incognito it doesn't matter the debt incurred will continue no matter what so the bill added up to quite a bit after all they have the government behind them keeping the tab attaching to your income tax returns stimulus money or PLUS as in my case becoming completely disabled an they take 65% of you social security disability . Leaving you with very little to live on . Try surviving on 300.00 a month ha! what a friggin joke . So I hobble along through the rest of life an for the next 12 years she'll get her just reward . But hey the kids were the one who grew up without a dad not her . But as I know it her mother did the exact same thing to her father leaving him in a little 18ft nomad trailer in some sleazy trailer park eating TV dinners an road kill at a Florida fish camp kissing her ass to see his ungrateful asses for kids till he died . While she owned her own home an basked in the luxury of snatching her ex husbands pension an social security . Why I ever married the B I have no idea except I was drinking a lot at that time an she suggested well if we get married well get a lot of gifts an the relatives will think better of us . Well I guess I had lost all my brains from drinking so I obliged her desires. But hey enough of the incredibly sad stuff but one point . At least as I grew up being beaten humiliated an degraded by my alcoholic father when it came to disbursing my anger on my kids I had enough sense to get the hell out . Rather than hang around an make your kids life a living f'n hell . So I can say this I never lifted a finger against or towards my kids in anger . So I stopped the situation of generation after generation beating the living crap out of they're kids like my father did an his before him so on an so forth . they survived evidently grew up an now they r 22 n 25 my youngest son now has a kid of his own . an hopefully the anger an beating will of stopped . After all insane mentally deranged criminals comes from dysfunctional families that beat they're freaking children . Now I keep up with the kids by watching they're my space page change . I still don't know where she lives an rarely if any get a chance to talk to the kids by way of the my space e mail preferences now that I am a grand pa . It is a little distracting but if I stopped the madness of dysfunctional deterioration and defeat . I did my part for society after all the madness stopped in my shoes . An believe me I'm not one of those pacifist that will let anyone push me around my retaliation is as I said brought up by a deranged dysfunctional family . But I live a simple effective relaxed life in a small little neighbourhood next to the edge of the world out of the way out of sight . I barely go out in public once in awhile to the grocery store and interact with very few at all . I don't own anything that can be attached to by the dept of revenue . even the bank owns my car I just make the payments an before its paid off I trade it in to get another bank owned vehicle . cause they will take your car too if its paid off . Nobody screws with me an I don't screw with my kids after all I want they're life to be different than my systematically deranged dysfunctional life . thanks for the stand up an giving me the chance to say what I feel . I guess I posted this first request to get somewhat of a reaction not necessarily get an appropriate helpful response but maybe to inform others that hey there's a method to madness an sometimes its as plain as the stop sign on every street stop the madness. How ever it can be done get out rather than extending it through your children continuing the dysfunction deranged deterioration. Thanks once again .
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